Christmas Gift Guide for the 11-Year-Old Tween in Your Life (Yes, I’m in Mom Mode!)

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I know this isn’t my usual content—I usually write about candy, dessert tables, and celebrating big moments—but today I’m in full mom mode. If you follow me, chances are you have kids, and like me, you’re probably thinking about holiday gifts that don’t junk up your house, keep your kids creative and engaged, and let you celebrate as much as possible while they’re still young. Time flies, and 11-year-old tweens are at that tricky age where you want to encourage their independence, but also soak up every last bit of childhood magic.

So, I put together a Christmas gift guide for the 11-year-old girl in your life that hits all the marks: fun, creative, and meaningful gifts that feel intentional rather than just “more stuff.” These picks also tie into the way I love to celebrate—big or small—because every moment matters.

1. Trendy & Wearable Gifts: Tweens love expressing themselves through what they wear, and these gifts let them do it in style. Think cozy pajamas, graphic tees, cute accessories, backpacks, or jewelry. Fun, practical, and Instagram-worthy (because yes, those little moments deserve a photo!).

2. Keep Them Creative (No Screens!): Hands-on creativity is more important than ever. Arts and crafts kits, DIY projects, and science experiments encourage imagination, problem-solving, and learning—all without screens taking over. These are gifts that engage them, spark curiosity, and keep them feeling like kids just a little longer.

3. Fun & Unique Experiences or Hobbies: The best gifts aren’t just things—they’re experiences. Books that transport them to new worlds, board games that bring the family together, puzzles, beginner baking or gardening kits, or music gear that sparks a new hobby. These gifts give them something to grow with, while also creating moments you can share together.

No matter how you like to shop, I’ve got you covered: the full list of gift picks is available on Benable and on ShopMy. Same curated gifts, just two ways to get them in time for the holidays!

Even though this isn’t dessert or party-related, it still fits the heart of my brand: celebrating life’s moments, whether big or small. As moms, our time with our kids is short, so anything that sparks joy, creativity, and connection feels like a gift in itself.

Here’s to holiday shopping that actually makes your life—and your kids’ holidays—a little sweeter.

xo,

Allison